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		<title>Comment on Musings on Life, Work, &amp; Personality in Today&#8217;s Economy by n</title>
		<link>http://personalityjunkie.com/2011/10/11/musings-on-life-work-personality-in-todays-economy/comment-page-1/#comment-5618</link>
		<dc:creator>n</dc:creator>
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		<description>I&#039;m pessimistic about the influence NPs might exert on our changing world, at least in the short to mid term (speaking in decades and centuries). The coming times will be even more brutal and fast-changing than they are currently. As ever, viable pockets of alternative community or revolution will be led by the decisive. (NJs, well, why not!) 

Already, the kind of reflective consciousness nurtured by the cultural developments of the past millennium has suffered both regressive and unpredicted (and arguably  undesirable) changes, thanks to the new shape, speed and scope of the internet, including its corporatization; personalization and the filtering out of opposing views; glut of content; and its intrusion into every leisure and working moment. Many writers, for example, no longer read.

I think introverts who&#039;ve *by nowish* laid claim to enough capital - in the form of actual money, land, years invested in a specialization deemed valuable, or by simple inheritance - will elude the worst. Working and middle class young people (and boat-missers) who fail to benefit from accident, or who lack entrepreneurial sensibilities, may never be able to gain a footing (or audience).

By the way: it&#039;s been a while since I&#039;ve been here, and I am astounded - again - by the depth of insight evident throughout your updated writing. There&#039;s a lot else I might have commented on in a more positive vein; it&#039;s just that this entry happened to seize my attention. (Your INFP page, in my case, certainly, might work equally well as straight biography.) Please find a publisher.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m pessimistic about the influence NPs might exert on our changing world, at least in the short to mid term (speaking in decades and centuries). The coming times will be even more brutal and fast-changing than they are currently. As ever, viable pockets of alternative community or revolution will be led by the decisive. (NJs, well, why not!) </p>
<p>Already, the kind of reflective consciousness nurtured by the cultural developments of the past millennium has suffered both regressive and unpredicted (and arguably  undesirable) changes, thanks to the new shape, speed and scope of the internet, including its corporatization; personalization and the filtering out of opposing views; glut of content; and its intrusion into every leisure and working moment. Many writers, for example, no longer read.</p>
<p>I think introverts who&#8217;ve *by nowish* laid claim to enough capital &#8211; in the form of actual money, land, years invested in a specialization deemed valuable, or by simple inheritance &#8211; will elude the worst. Working and middle class young people (and boat-missers) who fail to benefit from accident, or who lack entrepreneurial sensibilities, may never be able to gain a footing (or audience).</p>
<p>By the way: it&#8217;s been a while since I&#8217;ve been here, and I am astounded &#8211; again &#8211; by the depth of insight evident throughout your updated writing. There&#8217;s a lot else I might have commented on in a more positive vein; it&#8217;s just that this entry happened to seize my attention. (Your INFP page, in my case, certainly, might work equally well as straight biography.) Please find a publisher.</p>
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		<title>Comment on INFP by Nathan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nathan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Feb 2012 04:48:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey I&#039;m Nathan, 20 years old, INFP. I just wanted to say that this article is extremely helpful for me. A great deal of the information here describes my personality really well. For starters I&#039;ve been confused about my identity and a lot of things in life for several years toward the end of high school. Now I&#039;m in college and I&#039;m usually much happier and more confident then I&#039;ve been in the past. I study mathematics, which is not a suggested major for INFPs, but I guess you can say I channel my creativity through playing guitar and bass and making music in my spare time. One particularly interesting aspect of this article is the part regarding the phases of life for an INFP; I can relate very well to Phase I. Anyways I will probably read this article a few more times before I go to bed I just want to thank you for understanding my personality type better than I do. Keep up the good work!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey I&#8217;m Nathan, 20 years old, INFP. I just wanted to say that this article is extremely helpful for me. A great deal of the information here describes my personality really well. For starters I&#8217;ve been confused about my identity and a lot of things in life for several years toward the end of high school. Now I&#8217;m in college and I&#8217;m usually much happier and more confident then I&#8217;ve been in the past. I study mathematics, which is not a suggested major for INFPs, but I guess you can say I channel my creativity through playing guitar and bass and making music in my spare time. One particularly interesting aspect of this article is the part regarding the phases of life for an INFP; I can relate very well to Phase I. Anyways I will probably read this article a few more times before I go to bed I just want to thank you for understanding my personality type better than I do. Keep up the good work!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Understanding Introverted Sensing / Sensation (Si) by A.J.</title>
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		<dc:creator>A.J.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 20:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello again. Thank you for taking time to share your inner experiences with us all. Unfortunately, I feel this question falls outside my knowledge area. Perhaps some of my readers can help me out? AJ</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello again. Thank you for taking time to share your inner experiences with us all. Unfortunately, I feel this question falls outside my knowledge area. Perhaps some of my readers can help me out? AJ</p>
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		<title>Comment on INFJ, INFP, INTP, INTJ Relationships, Compatibility, &amp; the Inferior Function by A.J.</title>
		<link>http://personalityjunkie.com/2011/10/26/infj-infp-intp-intj-relationships-compatibility-the-inferior-function/comment-page-1/#comment-5601</link>
		<dc:creator>A.J.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 20:33:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey there Melody, Thank you for your comments and insights. My fellow blog contributor Elaine Schallock wrote a response to your comment which I pasted into the final page of this post. If that is not okay with you, please let me know. Thanks again! AJ</description>
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		<title>Comment on Understanding Introverted Sensing / Sensation (Si) by anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 18:59:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Let me tell you about an experience I have in my inner self that folks have told me that Fi is responsible for, but I have yet to find it explained anywhere else. Memories, and animals, and people all have non verbal labels. It is like a nonverbal nomenclature system, or I refer to them, to myself as kinesthetic labels. I identify/perceive them by their distinct feel. I am most interested in the kinesthetic labels of people. I will feel a person&#039;s label when I spend time with them, but also when I read words that a person wrote, or when I see a picture of the person, and the person does not have to be in the room, or even in the same country with me when I feel/perceive the label/name. The next step, I would like to use an analogy of a radio to explain. I have concluded that almost everyone transmits, but the rare ones are they who also receive. People transmit their emotions to the people they are upset with, or excited about or whatever, but most don&#039;t know this is happening because the cannot feel it. I refer to people who can also receive, or perceive people thinking about them as transceivers. Whenever I find another transceiver I have found a very very precious discovery, because this person is someone that I can link up with. I am very careful about who I speak to about these things because I fear that someone will conclude that I am delusional. When I read someone&#039;s words, I feel the person that wrote them, if they are still alive. I get the same experience from looking a t someone&#039;s picture. I had a wild experience a few years ago when a model whose picture was on the cover of a Speigels catalogue was a transceiver, and she felt me scanning her when I saw her picture. She was a brave soul. I would never want to have my picture on a magazine cover because I would be afraid it would become overwhelming feeling so many people looking at me.

Whenever someone is reading something I wrote, I feel their kinesthetic label, and also often what emotion(s) they are experiencing in response to my words. When I find another transceiver, it is like we become linked together. It is kind of like a wireless connection; I send to the person, and the other transceiver subconsciously responds, and when I feel the other&#039;s response some subconscious black box process links us together, and for a time we remain linked it is as if we both are accessing a shared memory buffer, for a lack of anything else to call it. When I am linked with another transceiver, I co-experience the other person&#039;s emotions, and visa versa, but I have discovered how to use my imagination to effect the other person&#039;s emotions. Like for instance, if while I am linked to another transceiver, if (s)he is feeling upset, or whatever, I can create the feel of receiving a hug in my imagination, and the other person will feel hugged. Sometimes other transceivers have also done this favor for me. I call this sending telepathic hugs.

I never know where I will encounter another transceiver. I have encountered maybe 10 living all over the world, and a few IRL. I have never met any of them in person, but I communicate nonverbally with many of them on occasion. There is a huge amount of energy received by both parties from being linked. 

I am curious what kind of functional analysis you would apply to all of this. I have wondered if I have learned to utilize my introverted intuition which is in type&#039;s source of wisdom, and that for INFP Ni is a mystical source. I read somewhere that the sixth position function is that person&#039;s source of wisdom. I don&#039;t know. I&#039;m jus curious.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let me tell you about an experience I have in my inner self that folks have told me that Fi is responsible for, but I have yet to find it explained anywhere else. Memories, and animals, and people all have non verbal labels. It is like a nonverbal nomenclature system, or I refer to them, to myself as kinesthetic labels. I identify/perceive them by their distinct feel. I am most interested in the kinesthetic labels of people. I will feel a person&#8217;s label when I spend time with them, but also when I read words that a person wrote, or when I see a picture of the person, and the person does not have to be in the room, or even in the same country with me when I feel/perceive the label/name. The next step, I would like to use an analogy of a radio to explain. I have concluded that almost everyone transmits, but the rare ones are they who also receive. People transmit their emotions to the people they are upset with, or excited about or whatever, but most don&#8217;t know this is happening because the cannot feel it. I refer to people who can also receive, or perceive people thinking about them as transceivers. Whenever I find another transceiver I have found a very very precious discovery, because this person is someone that I can link up with. I am very careful about who I speak to about these things because I fear that someone will conclude that I am delusional. When I read someone&#8217;s words, I feel the person that wrote them, if they are still alive. I get the same experience from looking a t someone&#8217;s picture. I had a wild experience a few years ago when a model whose picture was on the cover of a Speigels catalogue was a transceiver, and she felt me scanning her when I saw her picture. She was a brave soul. I would never want to have my picture on a magazine cover because I would be afraid it would become overwhelming feeling so many people looking at me.</p>
<p>Whenever someone is reading something I wrote, I feel their kinesthetic label, and also often what emotion(s) they are experiencing in response to my words. When I find another transceiver, it is like we become linked together. It is kind of like a wireless connection; I send to the person, and the other transceiver subconsciously responds, and when I feel the other&#8217;s response some subconscious black box process links us together, and for a time we remain linked it is as if we both are accessing a shared memory buffer, for a lack of anything else to call it. When I am linked with another transceiver, I co-experience the other person&#8217;s emotions, and visa versa, but I have discovered how to use my imagination to effect the other person&#8217;s emotions. Like for instance, if while I am linked to another transceiver, if (s)he is feeling upset, or whatever, I can create the feel of receiving a hug in my imagination, and the other person will feel hugged. Sometimes other transceivers have also done this favor for me. I call this sending telepathic hugs.</p>
<p>I never know where I will encounter another transceiver. I have encountered maybe 10 living all over the world, and a few IRL. I have never met any of them in person, but I communicate nonverbally with many of them on occasion. There is a huge amount of energy received by both parties from being linked. </p>
<p>I am curious what kind of functional analysis you would apply to all of this. I have wondered if I have learned to utilize my introverted intuition which is in type&#8217;s source of wisdom, and that for INFP Ni is a mystical source. I read somewhere that the sixth position function is that person&#8217;s source of wisdom. I don&#8217;t know. I&#8217;m jus curious.</p>
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		<title>Comment on INFJ, INFP, INTP, INTJ Relationships, Compatibility, &amp; the Inferior Function by Stephen</title>
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		<dc:creator>Stephen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 11:50:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi A.J. This is a very interesting read! As a single 23-year-old INTP, I have recently become more and more aware of how my Fe influences my decisions both in relationships and in trying to work out some sort of a career. It is true about being attracted to opposites; I last dated an ESFJ for just over a year.
I had an unusual experience in that I recently spent 3 years in a highly spiritual community (lots of NFs), and absolutely thrived there and had lots of personal growth and development. I&#039;ve been thinking that an ENFJ would make a great mate, as we would share intuitive communication and perception, and she would be Fe-dominant, which would perhaps engage my inferior Fe and her emotional world would be less hidden (as with Fi).
Although not a mindmate, would you say that if I was able to find some other friends to share intellectual pursuits and ideas and concepts with, would this be a good match, as far as typology goes? If I were to look for a mindmate as a life partner, would you say that the attitude and/or the order of functions of NT are important to engaging on the same level? (ie. Ni-Te vs Ne-Ti vs Ti-Ne vs Te-Ni)
One last question (I have quite a few around this area of typology!) pertains to the philosophy of what makes &#039;a good life partner&#039; in the first place? If we agree (and perhaps you don&#039;t) that an ideal partner is someone who will help us grow as a person and with whom we feel we can leave all our guards down and &#039;be ourselves&#039; and someone we can share experiences and fun and journey with - would having someone who has a similar function stack really be ideal?
Sorry for the long post, I am truly curious about all of this!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi A.J. This is a very interesting read! As a single 23-year-old INTP, I have recently become more and more aware of how my Fe influences my decisions both in relationships and in trying to work out some sort of a career. It is true about being attracted to opposites; I last dated an ESFJ for just over a year.<br />
I had an unusual experience in that I recently spent 3 years in a highly spiritual community (lots of NFs), and absolutely thrived there and had lots of personal growth and development. I&#8217;ve been thinking that an ENFJ would make a great mate, as we would share intuitive communication and perception, and she would be Fe-dominant, which would perhaps engage my inferior Fe and her emotional world would be less hidden (as with Fi).<br />
Although not a mindmate, would you say that if I was able to find some other friends to share intellectual pursuits and ideas and concepts with, would this be a good match, as far as typology goes? If I were to look for a mindmate as a life partner, would you say that the attitude and/or the order of functions of NT are important to engaging on the same level? (ie. Ni-Te vs Ne-Ti vs Ti-Ne vs Te-Ni)<br />
One last question (I have quite a few around this area of typology!) pertains to the philosophy of what makes &#8216;a good life partner&#8217; in the first place? If we agree (and perhaps you don&#8217;t) that an ideal partner is someone who will help us grow as a person and with whom we feel we can leave all our guards down and &#8216;be ourselves&#8217; and someone we can share experiences and fun and journey with &#8211; would having someone who has a similar function stack really be ideal?<br />
Sorry for the long post, I am truly curious about all of this!</p>
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		<title>Comment on INFP by Sophie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sophie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 04 Feb 2012 05:19:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I really related to a lot of this but would like some explanation of the last section.  I&#039;m in my 30&#039;s and seem to be going through the disillusionment phase you discuss, where the real world doesn&#039;t quite match up to my ideals (I&#039;m a teacher and the education system fails kids and teachers all the time) which has left me feeling bitter and pessimistic.  I&#039;m looking for a career change, I&#039;m looking for alternatives, I want to run away and live in Italy or India but I&#039;m too scared ;), the grass is always greener somewhere else, and I change my mind every week!! :) In a word, I&#039;m confused.    Do I stay in a miserable job and try to &quot;live authentically&quot; in spite of it (although I&#039;m not sure how to do that) OR should I change career (again) and go to India like my heart tells me to? At least it tells me that about 50% of the time ;)  Which option amounts to being courageous and living authentically, as you advise?

I&#039;m not really asking you what I should do next - its just easier to explain my question by giving you an example.  My real question is, what do you mean by &quot;courageously commit to a life of radical authenticity&quot;? What does that look like, feel like, and entail for the average INFP?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really related to a lot of this but would like some explanation of the last section.  I&#8217;m in my 30&#8242;s and seem to be going through the disillusionment phase you discuss, where the real world doesn&#8217;t quite match up to my ideals (I&#8217;m a teacher and the education system fails kids and teachers all the time) which has left me feeling bitter and pessimistic.  I&#8217;m looking for a career change, I&#8217;m looking for alternatives, I want to run away and live in Italy or India but I&#8217;m too scared <img src='http://personalityjunkie.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> , the grass is always greener somewhere else, and I change my mind every week!! <img src='http://personalityjunkie.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  In a word, I&#8217;m confused.    Do I stay in a miserable job and try to &#8220;live authentically&#8221; in spite of it (although I&#8217;m not sure how to do that) OR should I change career (again) and go to India like my heart tells me to? At least it tells me that about 50% of the time <img src='http://personalityjunkie.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   Which option amounts to being courageous and living authentically, as you advise?</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not really asking you what I should do next &#8211; its just easier to explain my question by giving you an example.  My real question is, what do you mean by &#8220;courageously commit to a life of radical authenticity&#8221;? What does that look like, feel like, and entail for the average INFP?</p>
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		<title>Comment on INFP by A.J.</title>
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		<dc:creator>A.J.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 23:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey there Emily. I&#039;m glad you&#039;re finding some helpful insights here. Feel free to post any questions you might encounter. AJ</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey there Emily. I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re finding some helpful insights here. Feel free to post any questions you might encounter. AJ</p>
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		<title>Comment on Do Personality Traits Change Over Time?  Can I Change My Personality? by A.J.</title>
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		<dc:creator>A.J.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 23:19:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for commenting. I&#039;m glad you&#039;ve found this site helpful! AJ</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for commenting. I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;ve found this site helpful! AJ</p>
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		<title>Comment on INFP by Emily</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 22:57:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I took this test a while ago, and just retook it.
This makes so much sense. I&#039;ve been having depression problems, as a result of my idealism and doubts warring out in my head.
Thank you for helping me to recognize the problem, it makes healing much easier.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I took this test a while ago, and just retook it.<br />
This makes so much sense. I&#8217;ve been having depression problems, as a result of my idealism and doubts warring out in my head.<br />
Thank you for helping me to recognize the problem, it makes healing much easier.</p>
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